If you’ve ever had periods of time where you weren’t motivated to go to the gym, it was likely because you didn’t enjoy it. This article goes through 10 different tips to help you enjoy working out more, and stay motivated, in order to make the progress you want & be the healthiest human you can be.
Eat More Food To Lose Fat
Earlier this week I had good friend of mine reach out and wanted me to confirm that she’s not crazy.
Not crazy as in ‘she doesn’t like Chipotle’ crazy. Rather, she wanted to make sure that she wasn’t crazy for not liking the answer she received, by two different people, when she complimented them on their “cut, in-shape look”.
Both of their responses: “Honestly, I’ve just been eating less and that’s really it.”
After hearing two people tell her that they saw progress by “eating less”, she immediately reached out and wanted to know my thoughts.
First, before getting into some specifics, I agree with my friend. I’m not a fan of the “I’m just eating less” response. At all.
These individuals aren’t necessary wrong though. In order to lose body fat, you need to be consuming less calories OR you need to be exercising a significant amount more.
Most people, especially adults, have more control over what they eat rather than the amount they work out. Being conscious of what you’re eating is significantly more efficient for your life than working out three hours per day.
However, eating less calories doesn’t mean you have to eat less food.
Most items that people eat on a regular basis are extremely calorie dense. There’s physically not that much food to eat but the food contains a significant number of calories. To give some examples, here are some of the most popular food or beverages in the United States and how many calories they have:
Pizza (Two slices of pepperoni): 600 Calories
Soda (One can): 150 Calories
Potato chips (One serving – 17 chips): 160 Calories
Dessert coffee (16oz Starbucks Pumpkin Spice Frapppuccino): 320 Calories
Muffins (Blueberry Muffin from Panera): 460 Calories
Fried Chicken Sandwich (From McDonald’s): 510 Calories
Fries (Medium order from McDonald’s): 340 Calories
Oreo Cookies (One serving of 3 Cookies): 160 Calories
One could argue that you can simply limit your portion sizes for these different items. And I agree….to a point.
But for each of those items, I already listed a smaller serving size and they still contain quite a bit of calories.
Also, I’ll be the first to admit that once I start eating pizza, chips, or Oreos, it’s pretty challenging to stop at one serving.
You can limit your portion sizes for these calorie dense foods, and lose weight, but you’re likely going to be insanely hungry and not satisfied if that’s all you’re eating.
In theory, “eating less” to lose body fat is simple and works.
But in your real day-to-day life…..Yeah...Not that easy. You need foods that are satisfying, allow you to eat less total calories so that you accomplish your goals, and actually fill you up.
The solution: Eating more lean sources of protein and nutrient dense foods.
By doing this, you can eat a substantial amount more food, while still taking in significantly less calories.
Examples of lean protein sources include:
(“Lean” meaning they are high in protein and low in fat, and therefore lower in calories):
Chicken Breast
Shrimp
Tilapia
Ground Turkey/Beef ( at least 93% Lean)
Egg Whites
Protein Powder
Greek Yogurt
*Side note and fun fact: peanut butter isn’t a very good source of protein but we’ll talk about that another day.*
Additionally, examples of nutrient dense foods that are lower calorie include:
Cucumbers
Raspberries
Asparagus
Strawberries
Broccoli
Blackberries:
Bell Peppers
That’s the greatness of lean proteins, along with fruits and veggies. You can eat a lot of them while keep calories in a good place.
Now, let’s put it into practical use.
Below are four popular meals/snacks and a substitute showing how much more food you can eat, while still taking in lower calories:
Popular Meal #1:
Muffin with a seasonal latte: 770 Calories
Lower Calorie Substitute #1:
Two egg white breakfast sandwiches, one banana, and a black coffee: 520 Calories
Popular Meal #2:
Fried chicken sandwich with a side of fries: 850 Calories
Lower Calorie Substitute #2:
Two grilled chicken sandwiches with a side salad: 780 Calories
Popular Snack #1:
3 Oreo Cookies: 160 Calories
Lower Calorie Snack Substitute #1:
Strawberries (Entire 1 pound container): 145 calories
Popular Snack #2:
Potato chips (1 serving - 17 chips): 160 calories
Lower Calorie Snack Substitute #2:
Raw Veggies: 2 cucumbers (60 calories) & 2 bell peppers (70 calories): 130 calories
If you’re more of a visual person, I have you covered as well:
Calories are the name of the game when it comes to losing weight. The more low-calorie, nutrient dense foods that you eat, the better your fat loss progress will be. Additionally, because they are so low calorie, you’re able to eat a lot more of them.
For people that enjoy eating and snacking (ME!), it would be next to impossible to stay consistent with just “eating less food”. That’s where prioritizing protein and vegetables comes strongly into play.
Not only does simply “eating less” sound miserable, but in practice you can and should be eating more volume of food to lose body fat.
Biggest Workout Mistakes (And The Solutions)
First, I’d like to say that if you’re hitting the gym on a regular basis, I will applaud you harder than I applaud LeBron. And that’s a lot. Building the habit of making time for the gym each week is challenging as you get into your adult life.
If you are going to the gym consistently, or if you tried it out and fell off because you didn’t notice results, these six workouts mistakes may be what is holding you back from becoming stronger, looking better, and feeling your best.
Mistake #1: Not Having A Plan Of Attack
This is the biggest mistake. If you're not sure what you're going to do when you step in the gym, you: won't make much progress, won't actually do a full workout, won't feel confident in what you're doing, and ultimately won't stick with it.
If there isn’t a plan in place when you step into the gym, it’s very easy to take 15 minutes trying to figure out where to start and then another 5 minutes between each exercise determining what to do next.
Think about trying to do your job if you didn’t have a plan in place for the day, week, or month.
For an example, my dad is a sports writer. With sports, you can’t plan what stories you’re going to write nine months in advance because certain teams may be significantly better/worse than anticipated, a certain player may have a fantastic game, or a coach may take a new job.
It is a little bit more of a reactive job. However, each week, he plans out what stories are going to go into the paper each day of the week. Sometimes, he has to leave space to allow for some flexibility. But that’s okay, there’s still a general plan in place.
Having a plan of action is necessary to stick with anything and make progress. Working out is no different.
Solution
Figure out a plan that fits your goals, your gym experience level, and your lifestyle.
If you want to generally get in better shape, then a three day per week plan where you’re doing full body workouts, hitting one exercise for each body part, along with some cardio, sounds great.
If you want to put on a decent amount of muscle and strength, then try doing a five day per week program where you are hit each muscle group multiple times per week.
After you know what you want to accomplish, look up or figure out what exercises to do. You can do a search on YouTube or Google and find endless results. From there, you can craft your specific plan.
Mistake #2: Trying to Emulate Pro Athletes
Social media is fantastic. I love it. Without social media, you wouldn’t be reading this right now.
However, through social media, everyone ends up seeing snippets of professional athletes’ workouts. Like the portion of the workout where LeBron is doing dumbbell curls while balancing, on his knees, on a giant, bouncy exercise ball.
Whatever LeBron is doing is clearly working for him. But for 99.99 percent of humans, you should not be doing that.
Just because you see LeBron, Tom Brady, or Serena Williams doing a certain exercise, doesn't mean you should do it. They're training for their specific sport. Most of us are training to simply look and feel better. Also, most athletes have the basics mastered, thus they begin incorporating more challenging exercises.
Solution:
First, train for what your goals are. If your goal is to look better by gaining muscle and losing fat, LeBron’s workout isn’t going to be the most effective thing for you to do.
If your goals are sport specific, then you still need to start with the basics. Master basic movements and slowly implement new aspects to it.
Mistake #3: Changing Up Your Routine Too Often
Okay, you know the old saying “You need to change up your routine every workout so that you can confuse your body and see more progress?”
Yeah, that’s stupid.
When you completely change up your routine each week, you don’t give yourself a chance to actually make progress with a certain exercise or workout.
This would be the equivalent of trying to start a business but each day you’re operating the business, you try a new marketing strategy. You want to attract more clients but you by advertising in a new way, to a new clientele every day, you would likely get zero new business.
Changing up your routine too often will make it extremely hard to actually see progress because you’re not getting better at any certain movement or exercise..
Solution:
Stick to one program, or least a handful of movements for a significant amount of Executing and improving on a handful of movements for 8 weeks or more will be the most beneficial. The other exercises you do after your main focus can switch around a little bit more frequently to keep it exciting.
Mistake #4: Only Doing One Type of Rep Range
While you should focus on mastering a few movements at a time, the amount of reps you do for different exercises should vary. At least a little bit.
I’ve seen a lot of different ‘sample workouts’ on Instagram/Pinterest/Around the block, where the entire workout is: 3 sets of 10 reps or 4 sets of 12 reps.
There are certain exercises, along with the order of the exercise (beginning or end of the workout), where certain rep ranges are better than others. If you're doing 12 reps (arbitrary number) for your entire workout, it's not the best strategy.
Solution:
There’s a rule of thumb when it comes to rep ranges that is efficient for most humans: Perform higher weight, lower reps in the beginning of your workout and higher reps, lower weight towards the end.
This allows you to have the most energy for movements you want you to improve and get stronger with (discussed in Mistake #3), while allowing you to mix in higher rep ranges at the end when you will need to be using lighter weight because you are more fatigued.
Mistake #5: Always Testing Your 1 Rep Max
Obviously, with lifting/strength training, the goal is to gradually get stronger. Unfortunately, some gym-goes want to prove to themselves, their friends (that don’t REALLY care), and boost their ego by improving the maximum amount they can lift.
Don’t get me wrong, it’s insanely cool and fulfilling to be able to do something you’ve never accomplished before. Especially lifting a really heavy weight. That’s amazing.
However, on a day-to-day/week-to-week basis, you want to build your strength, not test it.
If you're testing your strength every week, your strength won't be increasing too much.
Solution:
Have a plan in place. Work on building your strength with a specific movement for many weeks at a time. Let’s say you build, build, build for 8 weeks, then you max out. That’s a lot better strategy, where you will actually see some progress, instead of throwing on your previous one rep max and adding 5lbs to start every workout.
Mistake #6: Not Working Out After A "Bad Day" of Eating
I’m putting you in the game. You’re LeBron in the fourth quarter of Game 7 of the 2016 NBA Finals.
You just missed your last three shots which would have gave you the lead and would probably help you win the NBA championship.
Instead of getting down on yourself (you being LeBron – cool, right?), on one of those missed shots, you sprint back on defense and block a shot which helps your team win the game. Just because you sucked on offense didn’t mean you completely gave up on defense.
Also, congrats. You just won the NBA Championship. Cleveland, this is for you.
There are two sides of basketball – offense and defense. When you suck on offense, you can step it up on defense and still do some good things to help. Or at least mitigate your lackluster offense.
Diet and exercise are the same way.
Even if you ate terribly (we've all been there), the calories you're burning during the workout will balance out the excess food a little bit.
Also, the extra energy from those extra calories might just help you hit a new PR in the gym.
Just because you had a bad day or two of eating, doesn’t mean you shouldn’t work out.
Solution:
I want you to know that it’s acceptable to not be 100% on your game with nutrition at all times. Also know that by working out after a “bad day of eating”, you are helping yourself tremendously.
If you have a day of eating 5 pieces of pizza, 4 pieces of cake, and a large order of fries anddddd also skip out on your workout, you’re taking multiple steps backwards instead of just one.
Obviously, you can get back on track at any time. However, try to make it a rule for yourself that if you have a day where you go overboard with too much “fun food”, you get a workout in.
You will feel better now and thank yourself in the future.